THERE are individuals and groups who for
reasons, motives, or causes of their own, are bent on subverting the intrinsic
nature and trivializing the essential finalities of marriage—in addition
to undermining the core significance and inherent consequence of marriage in
terms of the formation, care and affirmation of the family.
In its
substantive understanding and ontological consequences, marriage is not only a
consummate union between a man and a woman but also a sanguine community
between them and their children. So it is that in clear and succinct
language, honest-to-goodness marriage equals unity and indissolubility between
an husband and a wife—until death does them part, with or without having co-created
a family of their own. This is the nature and substance,
the connotations and consequences of marriage.
But for
different personal reasons of their own, the aforesaid individuals and groups
appear decided to change the nature and significance, the finalities and
consequences of marriage. In essence, they want marriage to be not simply
divisible but also soluble for personal causes they have, for individual
options they make. Why do they hate marriage for what it really is?
Why do they abhor marriage for what it truly is? Why do they want to
substitute marriage for something it is not? Why do they
want “Soluble Marriage” on account of this or that personal reason or
cause?
Is it because
they are the pitiful products of failed marriages? Is it because their
own marriages are wrecks? Is it because after all is said and done, they
are in effect personally incapable of entering into insoluble conjugal
unions? Is it because neither marriage nullity nor marriage annulment as
provided by the Family Code of Philippines is enough for them in case
of marriage failure on account of a given personality liability? Is it
because after all is said and done, what they in fact and in truth really
desire is the institution of divorce in the Philippines. Hence,
more questions:
What are the
grounds for divorce? Infidelity: So a spouse commits it on purpose
to get a divorce. Violence: So the husband or the wife kicks the
other to obtain a divorce. Abandonment: So the husband or wife
abandons the other to have a divorce. And how many divorces may a husband
or wife have, how many re-marriages may either or both of them enter into and
break, and how many children will they hurt and/or make them hate their mothers
and fathers? So it is that in the USA, there is a well-known woman who
had no less than nine divorces. Will Filipinos eventually break the record?
So categorically
and officially provides nothing less than the Constitution of the
Philippines: “The State recognizes the Filipino family as the foundation
of the Nation. Accordingly, it shall strengthen its solidarity and
actively promote its total development.” (Art. XV, Sec.
1). “Marriage, as an inviolable social institution, is the
foundation of the family and shall be protected by the State.” (Art.
XV, Sec. 2).
Those in favor
of the institution of divorce in the country should likewise have to undermine
no less than the Philippine Constitution. (State Policies, Sec. 12)
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